Don’t let how you feel determine your action

Sometimes we get so overwhelmed by our negative feelings in different situations that we forget to take positive action.We end up letting dark clouds determine our outlook for the day.If you want to consistently live a healthy, stress-free and happy life, you have to learn how to take appropriate daily action despite your negative feelings.
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The first step in doing this is to learn to look at  difficulties as stepping stones  for growth.Stay calm and look on the inside so that you can analyze your negative feelings in terms of what is causing it and the solutions you can take to improve the situation and get a more positive outcome.. This approach will help you e to conquer your challenges that face the day more positively.

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The other tip is to avoid being reactive  to difficult situations . Reduce stress through by taking action to diffuse tension when you are confronted by either the unexpected or the unreasonable.that catch me off guard. Sometimes, this might mean walking away at other times, it mean setting the records straight in a calm and respectful manner.While it is easy to allow confrontation to anger me, I choose to take the higher road.IMG_0952


Train myself to keep calm when that is the least natural approach.  You can do this by learning to me to  ignore the stirrings of impatience and anger that pull at you. You have to cut them out completely. This approach will help you to develop the serenity that will see you through even your most challenging days. Remember that if you turn on the light bulb in a dark room , it will help you see better and avoid tripping over objects that could impede your movement.lamp_world[1]

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3 tips for managing stress in the office through concurrent adjustments

Stress can occur anywhere and at anytime.Sometimes, you cannot even identify why stress has become an issue at home or at work. For now I will share with you 3 tips to help you deal with stress when it occurs in the office.

The first tip is that you need to know the tendencies and traits of the people you work it. This is much more useful than learning all about the personality of each person you work it. When you have to deal with people  who love point out your faults but lashes out each time you point out their own fault:you have a problem, This is because this type of behavior will eventually lead to conflict unless you take proactive action.

Taking proactive action is the second tip that  will enable  you to modify  your  interaction with such persons when you anticipate negative actions and reactions and make adjustments. One easy adjustment is to selectively decide on the topics in which it will be worth your while to fully engage and those in which it is better to punt.

The third tip is that you should be prepared to make adjustments based on the circumstances in which you find yourself.Sometimes this may mean that you have to keep yourself open for learning from what others do, when they deal with similar situations to the ones you find most stressful.

How joining a weight-loss membership club can help you sustain your weight-loss strategy

One of the challenges you will face as you try to improve your health is that, it is easy to get distracted or discouraged when the going gets tough or the results begin to stagnate. When you first begin a weight-loss regimen, it is easy to remain upbeat by your initial success and your sense of potential accomplishments. However, when you face challenges it is critical to be part of a group that can help you stay focused and encourage to thrive more!

This will give you an opportunity to ask questions and share your concerns. However, the get the most out of your group or membership you have to participate. You can do this by reading your weekly articles or reports and attempting to make the best out of the materials you have access to.